Have The Wedding You’ve Always Dreamed Of

If you are months away from your big day, or just a few short weeks or even days, you could be looking for a few quick ways to make it more special, less expensive and a little less crazy. This article will help you sort through the insanity and reach a happy place where your wedding can be what you envisioned.

The Wedding You’ve Always Dreamed

Serve ethnic food at your wedding if you want to spice it up. Use lots of different foods rather than the more traditional chicken and steak. Your wedding dinner can be very memorable when it includes interesting variety.

If you are hoping to wear some special jewelry of your wedding day but only have a limited amount of money left in your budget, consider renting some diamond pieces. You can get the stunning look without spending too much money.

When you are walking down the aisle, look directly into the eyes of your groom at all times. This will be a special moment that you two will share for the rest of your life, as you will want to see each other when it happens. Look and smile at your groom to make the best of the moment.

I was at a wedding last year which seemed more like a circus. Not only did they have the typical events like bouquet tossing and garter removal, but they insisted on playing games throughout the night. Many guests won’t be expecting to have to compete at your reception, nor will they welcome the opportunity. Try to keep entertainment such as this to a minimum.

When planning a destination wedding you should find out how many people are willing to attend. You may think only a few can afford to get there, but it might turn out that most of your family has money put away for a vacation and they’d like to use your wedding as the venue!

Check with the post office for their size and weight limitations for letter mail before placing your wedding invitation order. If you can scale back the size and weight of your invitations so that they are considered a standard size, you can save hundreds of dollars in excess postage needed to send something big and bulky.

Adding items to your wedding gift registry can be very overwhelming, especially if you register at a large department store. Do not be afraid to make multiple appointments, rather than trying to build your entire registry in a single day. This approach keeps the process stress-free. Consider building your registry by household area. On one trip, choose kitchen items, then bathroom goods, then items for the bedroom and so on.

Only invite people to your wedding who matter to you. It isn’t meant to be a show of wealth or reputation. It is a day for you to share with the person you plan on spending the rest of your life with. Keep your list limited to anyone who you would want to see in the photos you’ll be looking at for the rest of your life.

Ask your friends, family, and co-workers to find out what skills they have that can help you with your wedding. For example, your best friend might have worked as a florist and a cake decorator, one cousin could be a DJ and the other a photographer, and maybe your Grandmother is willing and able to do all the catering!

Having a smaller bridal party can save you money on gifts and the rehearsal dinner, allowing you to use the extra funds to pay for the wedding itself, upgrade items like the cake or flowers, or apply it towards your honeymoon. As long as people are able to attend your wedding, they’re content.

One of the things that you can do to save a lot of money on your wedding is to get a private room at a restaurant. This can be much cheaper than a hotel ballroom and can also elevate the level of intimacy. This alternative for reception locations can improve your wedding and appeal to your budget.

The gift registry is a time-honored wedding tradition. To make guests comfortable, make it clear that they need not bring gifts. Give them several gift options at a wide range of prices. People need to be comfortable giving what they are able to afford bringing.

Consider a disc jockey instead of a live band for your reception. A band can often be very expensive, and the type of music they can play will be limited. A disc jockey can often save you money, and their playlist is only limited by your own imagination.

Ask one of your shutterbug friends to do the pictures for your wedding. Professional photographers are expensive and, with the advent of digital cameras and editing software, often an amateur can do just as good of a job. Tell them to forgo the wedding gift and just give you a disk of digital images instead.

When you are visiting places that you are going to have your reception make sure you have a check list of questions you would like to ask. You may want to ask how many people it can comfortably seat and also how late you can stay there the night of your reception.

Don’t go overboard. Take a step back and remember what the wedding is all about. Too much activity and too many expenses can leave you stressed and broke, so try to restrain yourself. Plan realistically and within your budget. This way, you’ll be able to keep yourself calm and your pocketbook full.

Do not serve champagne during the meal. You will save a lot of money on your wedding if you only use champagne for the toasts. Your guests can enjoy wine or other drinks during the meal, and you will be able to signify how special the toasts are to you by breaking out the champagne at that time.

Your wedding is a day you will remember for the rest of your life. Planning it, while intense and hectic, you will remember much less of. Take the advice of this article to see a reduction in the frazzled feeling and more control over the even itself.

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